My son is 2 months old and I'm tired of my husband.?

I totally understand where you are coming from. My husband was the same way with our first child. I have seen a couple people tell you that you need to make plans for yourself and leave the baby with him for the day. DO IT!!! I have to say that was the best advice i got from anyone. This way he can learn that taking care of a baby isn't easy. You also have to remember he wasn't there for the whole pregnancy or the birth. I honestly believe it takes men longer to get the concept of pregnancy and having babies. Having him spend alone time with the little one will help strengthen a bond, and maybe get over him thinking he can be selfish with his time.